Clio has taught education courses at the college level and has a Ph.D. in curriculum and instruction.
Questions for Teachers to Ask Parents
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ShowAs teachers, we are often encouraged to communicate openly with families. Yet sometimes it is tricky to know exactly how this communication can look. One of the best things that can come of communication with parents is that parents can teach us more about their children, their own hopes and dreams for their children, and the daily rhythm of their family lives. When we know about children outside of school, we are better prepared to meet their needs as learners and capitalize on their unique strengths and interests. When we understand what a family wants for their child, we can consider things about our curriculum that might help lead in this direction. Asking parents questions is also a great way to show them how much we care, and to demonstrate that education truly is a partnership among schools, children and families.
Sometimes, we see parents in large groups settings such as open houses, curriculum nights, or other large meetings. These contexts are not ideal for asking parents questions personal to their children, but they can be great settings for starting conversations about a community's hopes and wishes for their children's education. Asking questions of parents in a whole group can also be a good way to facilitate conversations among different families about what is going on with their children. Here are some great questions to ask parents in large group settings:
- What is something you really hope your child learns in school this year? What do you hope they accomplish in reading? How about in math? Where do you think this hope is coming from, and why do you associate it with this age group?
- What would make this classroom an inviting or comfortable place for you to visit? What, if anything, would you like to do to help out with our class' work?
- What are some things that have really helped your children educationally in the past, and why do you think these things are so successful?
- What are some of the things you find unique about the age your child is right now? What do you love about it, and what do you struggle with? What do you think the school could do to support you through the more challenging parts?
- What memories do you have about being in this grade or studying this subject? How do you envision things having changed over time? What do you think about these changes?
Some of the best communication we can do with families happens during one-on-one or one-on-two meetings, in parent teacher conferences for example. These are some of the best questions you can ask families during these times.
- What do you feel is going really well for your child in this class, and why? How can you tell this is going well?
- What do you feel is challenging for your child in this class, and why? How can you tell this is challenging?
- What sorts of things does your child tell you about his school day? How do you get him talking about his time in school?
- Describe your family's morning routine. Are you happy with this routine? Why or why not?
- Describe your family's evening routine. Are you happy with this routine? Why or why not?
- If you were going to describe your child in 3-5 sentences, what would you say about her? How do you think this is, or isn't, different from what you would have said a year ago? Five years ago?
- What is your most cherished hope for your child?
- Describe your child's social world for me. What do you think is working for him socially? What isn't, and why?
- What are some of the things your child is passionate about? How does he express these passions?
- What are some of the things your family likes to do together in your spare time?
- What is the best way to communicate with you when something happens for your child in school?
- Has your child had any bad school experiences in the past? How can we work together to avoid these experiences in the future?
- Is there anything else you would like me to know about your child or your family?
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