Natalie is a teacher and holds an MA in English Education and is in progress on her PhD in psychology.
Sexual Functioning in Middle Adulthood
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ShowBilly and Betty are married, and they love each other very much. They've been together for almost 30 years, since they were in their mid-20s, and they are still going strong.
But lately, there have been some issues in the bedroom. Sometimes, Billy has trouble performing. His doctor says this is a normal part of aging, but Billy feels really insecure about it.
Billy and Betty are in middle adulthood, which lasts from age 40 to age 65. During this time, many things are changing. People often find that they advance in their careers, and they are often raising a family. But there are also negatives to middle adulthood, which is also called middle age. As the body gets older, physical signs of aging begin to appear, like wrinkles or gray hair. Let's look at some of the changes in sexuality during middle adulthood.
Billy and Betty have been together for a very long time. When they first got together, during early adulthood, they couldn't keep their hands off each other. They were really attracted to each other and had a healthy, frequent sex life.
It's not uncommon for people in early adulthood (which encompasses the 20s and 30s) to have a very active sex life. This is because the sex drive is very high at that point in life. But as people age, their sex drive slowly lowers, and people in middle adulthood often find that they just don't have sex as often as before.
This is true of Billy and Betty. They've been together for three decades, and they're very different now than they were before. They don't have sex nearly as often as they used to.
Frequency is an issue for Billy and Betty but not the main issue. Remember that Billy struggles sometimes with sexual dysfunction, or difficulty during sex. For some people, sexual dysfunction can happen during the arousal stage of sex. Billy, for example, has a difficult time getting an erection. Sometimes Betty, too, can't seem to get aroused enough for sex.
Other times, sexual dysfunction might occur during the orgasm stage of sex. For example, some males might find that they reach orgasm too soon, and some females might find that they have trouble ever reaching orgasm.
In general, there is an increase in sexual dysfunction during middle age, though some specific sexual dysfunctions (like premature ejaculation) occur more often earlier in life. As Billy's doctor pointed out to him, this is a normal part of the aging process and is partly due to the way that hormones in the body change during middle adulthood.
Billy's doctor can give him medication to help him with his sexual dysfunction. But if he doesn't end up taking medication, it's important for Billy and Betty to realize that it's okay and perfectly normal for sexuality to change as people age.
Middle adulthood is the time of life between ages 40 and 65. During this time, people's sexuality changes. Many people find that they have sex less frequently, and others find that they struggle with sexual dysfunction at either the arousal stage or the orgasm stage of sex. It's important to recognize that these changes are a normal part of aging.
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